Puss...

 

What a puss face!!! Why are people so damn sour? They make me pucker. When I pucker it's for kisses not for disses.  That's just how they are sometimes, kill joys!!! I know Boo...I got you. You were in such a great place a few days ago and now...you're in a grey space. Whatever you need baby. Shall I write you a special poem to lift your spirits? To remind you how special you are? You are...you know. Just know I'm here for you. I won't judge you. I'll listen to you, really listen. To understand the meaning of your words and the feelings within your heart. If you let me in...to that small tightly confined compartment, that restrains invaders from attacking. I understand your stance but at some point you have to let your guard down and relax. I'm not the enemy nor the foe, I am your friend...first and foremost. You remember that! Just ask, and you shall receive all that you need. Just for you!!! Awwww? What? My pucker is dope? Lol...You want your lips on mine? 

Babyyyy...

I know...

I did say my pucker was for kisses...

-Liz ; )

Deep as a Scar...

Scars can go deep...real deep. A scar is a natural part of the healing process. When the damage is deep, rebuilding is more complicated. Much more complicated! And even once healing has occurred, it's much harder to hide the scar...no matter how hard you try. Some of us do it very well,  some of us don't and some don't even care. There use to be a time when scars were worn proudly. Every scar has a story...how it happened, could it have been prevented and how it impacted the individual. You know though, the story is the most important part. That story pointed you in the direction and place that you are at...in this moment of time, in the story of your life. Should we have regrets? I don't know...personally, I don't believe in them. I've had them and I learned that dwelling in them has gotten me nowhere. Mistakes happen because of the choices we make. We make choices based on feelings, situations, intelligence, influences and so much more. These things are ever changing, without mistakes there is no progression...in life and in us. Depending how severe our mistakes,  they will determine and alter the severity and depth of our scars.  Question is...how deep does your strength go? To heal? To overcome? To live?

Deep as a scar...

Deeper is our strength...

Naturally...

To rebuild...

-Liz

The Joker...

I feel like the joker....having encountered false love during botched attempts with men. Each time barely escaping the chemicals of sexuality, discovering that the toxins are altering my transformation.
My methods are simple, not mad. To gain pleasure in this life, to make connections with people, to understand the purpose of things and of myself. My trademarks...the flaunt, the taunt, the cat and mouse tease, the chase, the catch...realizing men just want my spicy snatch. Jeez!!! Extremely intelligent...but the lunacy is not mine, it is theirs. Their motive... to bring me as close to the edge as possible. Striving to out do the men before them. Having no purpose... is seen clearly past the mask. The honor of doing me is more than just a a crime of passion...this isn't just a stage to perform on, this is me...my life! I may feel like the joker...but the real joke is on you! What am I saying? Elucidating to a deeper truth that may disturb some men. You see...my strength as a woman, is my strength. Knowing myself and embracing my sexuality is not something I take lightly or give away easily. We all feel a need to fulfill a purpose. My strategy... to become the master of my role. Some of you on the other hand, haven't found your roles...your real purpose. So your little games and riddles, you can take elsewhere.
I'm not down to play with you...
This queen of hearts...
Discards the joker from my deck...
And...
My game of love...

-Liz xoxoxo

It's All in a Kiss...

You got that right!!! I can tell your story, just from your kiss. That's why I love reading ; )!

You learn so much you didn't know before. The elusive kiss...do you wait for that kiss me look? What if that look never happens? Or if opportunities arise but than get interrupted? That's when I say...be bold and take control. Ladies, we can make this easy for the guys and make the first move. I've never met a guy that didn't appreciate a woman taking the pressure off for him. If you really dig him, go for it! Men, you're really feeling her but maybe she's waiting on you, go for it! keep it relaxed, playful and fun. It should be a natural step, don't make it so serious and don't make it all about the sex. It's not a new chapter in a book, it's just the next page in the story. I understand some guys don't like kissing women unless they really like them. I think I get this...if you're in it just to get laid, whatever man!!! What you guys need to understand is that it takes time for women to get aroused. Some of us are hornier than others and get aroused quicker but, there is medical data that proves how a passionate kiss creates a rush of  blood flow to our precious Venus...yes, just like you! It doesn't happen as quickly but as it trickles down, our passion trickles up. Heavy breathing and all sorts of yummy sensations take over us, as we become engulfed in all that is you. It helps to leave behind thoughts of daily life...which you want guys, trust me. Our surroundings impact our mood and our level of engagement, it's just how we're built. So...another way to get us to melt in your arms and become weak in the knees is a lustful lip lock.

I'm so feeling a juicy kiss right now...

It's all in a kiss...

Besos Baby...

-Liz ; )

Is This a Test? ...

So...tell me, is this a test? Are we measuring  aptitude and ability in this topic called life? Basically it's an open book test. I mean, the answers are right there, right? Every year you anniversary your birth...comes knowledge and wisdom, so it might as well be a closed book. Experience is your memory, the key to your answers. So why it it so damn hard? Why is there always a catch to everything. Nothing can be simple and everything has got to be complicated. This isn't standardized!!! Dammit!!! If it was...I'd be saying f*ck off people! This is my life! You don't get to score me! Your opinion doesn't matter more than mine, wow! ... so clueless. This is more like a non-standardized, you know? ...a bit of flexibility in scope and format to LIVING. Determining your proficiency levels in social skills, in love skills, in parenting skills, in career skills, in relationship skills, in skills...period! Do you receive feedback? Do you become motivated? Are you flexible? Every step you take, are you more prepared for the next step? Can't even answer the questions? Well then...sounds like you have issues in this topic called life. I want to believe that non-standards may be more complicated after all...more variables to deal with. Formatted, fixed, constrained and being controlled, means you know what to expect... monotonous boring predictable existence. The opposite of REAL living!
Is this a test? ...
If it is...
I've failed...
And, I've passed already...
I'm outta here...
Playing hooky...
For the real answers I seek...

-Liz

That's the Way Love Goes...

 

    

That's the way love goes...you just never know. When you turn that corner and you find yourself on a completely different street. 

 You wonder... How did I get here in the first place? Where do I go from here? Can I do this? Can I move forward? Will I feel like myself again? Will I love once again?  The answer is, absolutely! We have the capacity to forgive and forget. It becomes easier to forgive if we prepare ourselves for the unexpected potholes of that road. We don't have to hold on. We don't have to hold grudges. We don't have to be resentful. We can and should let go. We do have the natural ability to let go, it's just been repressed but, we can reawaken it. How? By putting yourself in the other person's shoe. Understanding what they are feeling, will help you understand their choices. You may not agree with them, you may not feel great about them, but regardless... who are we to say, they can't feel what they feel?

See, the thing about feelings is...you can't own theirs, you can only own yours. How we react to them, is what we can control. Meaning...the right thing to do is respect them. Granted, an action causes a reaction and we are a reflection of each other. If you can get to a point... where you can calmly remove the emotions and look at the facts, than your more apt to handle yourself better, the situation and when necessary, the other person... in way that's conducive to resolving the issues. In the reality of things...I've failed at this myself. When... no matter what is said, there is no common ground of understanding. You just don't jive, you just don't get it, you don't resolve it, you can't resolve it...well then we all know, that's the way love goes...