Risque Aficionado

Obscene Obsession 

     This is a fully loaded title, indeed. Very intense set of words. Conveniently, all revolving well around sexuality.

     Risque is suggestive of sexual impropriety, a blue movie,  blue jokes, a juicy scandal, a naughty wink, naughty words, racy anecdotes, gamy details, spicy gossip and even a risque story intended to arouse sexual desire or interest. (You mean like an erotica story? ; ) Yep,  just like that! )

Aficionado is an enthusiastic admirer/follower, an ardent supporter, to induce a liking for, fervently pursues an interest/activity, addict, fan, buff, fanatic, fancier, fiend, fool, freak, sucker, habitue, hound, head, junkie, lover, maniac, maven, and nut. (You mean like the guy checking out the boobs in the picture? ; ) Yep, just like that! )

     Obscene is to have a tendency towards moral looseness, indecent gestures, salacious remarks, abhorrent deeds, behaviors/expressions/appearances that are impure, lewd, repulsive, morally repugnant and offensive to chastity, modesty, delicacy and imply sexual connotations. Sometimes so much so that it's viewed as objectionable or outrageous.  Although it's not always easily defined because you can also know it once you see it. (Hmm, you mean like...never mind, not touching this one! ; ) Yep, that's smart! )

     Obsession is an addiction to something with the inability to get over it,  accompanied by symptoms of anxiety.  A compulsive preoccupation with a fixed unreasonable idea, unwanted feeling or emotion. You cannot help thinking of it, even though it creates significant distress. Impulse continually presses it's way into consciousness. Will seem unnatural or alien to those who have them and are not seen as delusions. (You mean like how my boyfriend wants sex all day long  and every day? ; ) What is he, a machine? Yep, could be ! LOL)

     So who decides this offensiveness? The mass majority? Who is the mass majority? With our world being so diverse what's offensive to one is not offensive to another. So many factors contribute to this: sex, sexual orientation, culture, religion, beliefs, non-beliefs, environment, experiences, jobs, age, upbringing, etc. I think the real issue is ignorance. Can we really say about ourselves, that we are flexible and open-minded to those things we really don't understand? Automatically most of us would say yes, I would. In retrospect there were things in my life, people in my life, situations in my life that I could have tried to understand better. Maybe asked more questions. Really listened to gain insight. So my real answer is no, probably not. I have opportunity. We all have opportunity. Ask yourself, why are you so offended exactly? Why are you scared? Why don't you understand? What are you confused about? Let's educate ourselves first and foremost, then honestly form an opinion based on knowledge. By all means share that opinion; stand by your beliefs. Life is full of surprises. Life is full of shock. Just when I think nothing else will surprise or shock me, I prove myself wrong. 

    I've mentioned this before, that I never thought I'd be writing about sex, or stories around sex. I must acknowledge I am a sexual person. Alright, that's obvious no?  Any creative person that works around sexuality must be; whether it's a photographer, film maker, artist or writer.  But am I really more sexual than the next person? We all are sensual beings. Naturally. Undeniably. Or is the only difference the ability to express, expose and exchange those thoughts? Feelings? Dreams? Fantasies? As I dive deeper into the world of erotica, I open my eyes more to the nature of human sexuality, and its  impact on us. Whether you're conscious of its impact or not, is a different topic. The point of this topic is just food for thought, okay, sex for thought. We're all obscenely obsessed about something. Yes we are!

The question is...

Who's driving? What are you driving? When are you arriving? Where are you going? and Why are you on this trip?

The real adventure...

Quite possibly the simple dirt road, you just bypassed.

-Liz

All I Wanna See you in...

 

No heels...No Shirt...No jeans...No skirt...Just skin...Your skin...All I wanna see you in...
Mmmmm

Baby...just like that

Would you mind?

Mmm Mmm Mmm

Is all I can say...

A Trick & A Treat...

Do you tonight....

Treats For Her...

Lube up first, then try...

*Circling: use the pads of your fingers to make big circles around the clitoris, making them smaller when she's aroused enough for more direct stimulation.

*Drumming: lightly tap along the length of the labia.

*Stirring: put two fingers inside her (usually the middle and index) and pretend you're stirring something. This effectively stimulates the entire vaginal wall.

*Zig-zag: move one or two fingers gently but rapidly from side to side across the head of the clitoris. You can manipulate the hood across the clitoris to do this if she finds it too intense. Alternately, "march" your fingers- move them as if you're walking really quickly.

*Pressing: with two fingers inside her, put the heel of your other hand on her abdomen, just above her pubic bone and press down. The added pressure feels great- even better if you try it with a strong vibrator.

*The Ultimate: this has some less charming nicknames. "The shocker" and "Two in the goo, one in the poo," to be precise. To do it, insert two fingers (middle and index) into her vagina and another (usually the little finger) simultaneously into her anus. Your other two fingers curl out of the way. It's called "The shocker" because some men do it when their partner's not expecting it. (But you wouldn't dream of doing that, would you now?) Thing is, while some women do get massively turned-on by this, you're probably going to get better results across the board by combining clitoral stimulation with anal (insert a finger inside her anus while giving her oral), or clitoral and vaginal (fingers inside her, thumb circling the clitoris).

Treats For Him...

 

Lube up first, then let him have it...

*Juicing: if he's uncircumcised, hold the loose skin taut at the base of his penis with one hand, hold the shaft with the other, and slide upward. Squeeze and pulse several times on the way up.

*Racking: hold the base of his penis with one hand and his testicles with the other, palms turned to face his body. Now move your hands away from each other- one hand strokes up the shaft, while the other pulls down across his testicles.

*Interlock: interlock your fingers and cross your thumbs. Put his penis in the middle, then glide your hands up and down the shaft, rhythmically squeezing your hands together as you do.

*O yes: make the letter "O" with you thumb and index finger, place it around the corona (the ridge around the head) and twist. (Don't worry if he's too big for your fingers to meet.)

*The Piston: when he's fully erect and you don't mind he orgasms, start adding in a few quick hand strokes, from bottom to top and down again, fast and hard. Then go back to whatever you were doing before. The quicker you want him to orgasm, the more you increase the number of piston strokes.

*The Polisher: using plenty of lube, take the base of his penis with one hand and put the open palm of your other hand on top of the head of his penis. Close the top hand around the head and twist to and fro.

Libido Types...

10 Libido Types

Knowing what intrinsically drives us sexually is vital to achieving long-term satisfaction. Try to identify your own and your partner's and use is as a springboard to sorting out the kind of sex you both need to keep you interested long term.

1. Sensual: sex is an expression of love. Emotional intimacy is the most important thing.

2. Erotic: sex needs to be intense and lusty. Low-key "ordinary" sex is OK but it needs to be punctuated with some extraordinary sessions.

3. Dependent: sex is used as stress release and you become agitated if denied it.

4. Reactive: sex is about giving not receiving. It can be based around a low sex drive or you need to see your partner aroused to become aroused yourself.

5. Entitled: you have little understanding of your partner's sexual needs-just believe you're "owed" a certain amount and type of sex.

6. Addictive: sex is something you find so appealing, it's hard to manage. It controls you rather than the other way around and you're prone to cheat.

7. Disinterested: sex provides little pleasure and you rarely desire it. It can be the result of distressing sex that's quelled any natural desire.

8. Stressed: sex is worrying. You feel under pressure to perform and worry you're inadequate.

9. Detached: sex is good but competing distractions put you off and you emotionally withdraw from your partner and sex.

10. Compulsive: sex is only satisfying if you follow a specific ritual. Fetishists fall into this type of libido. It's selfish sex that involves little connection with your partner.

(Excerpt from: Secrets of a Supersexpert, Tracey Cox)

Wicked Weird Fact #11

People, mainly men, who join "diaper clubs" suffer from anaclitism: needing to wear or use objects usually used by infants-pacifiers, diapers, rattles- before they can become aroused. Less common but difficult if you're a churchgoer or public speaker is being a homilophiliac:someone who becomes sexually aroused while listening to or giving sermons or speeches. Interestingly, this can be traced back to ancient religious services that were in fact designed to arouse devotees sexually in preparation for the orgies that followed. In modern times, it's thought guilt plays a big part in producing this passionate response: if someone's lecturing passionately against-the sins of sex, it can cause the audience to be more aroused than if they were watching porn. Anything forbidden becomes intensely desirable.

Wicked Weird Fact #10

Not only are we having sexual contact with animals, we're also getting caught. One can only imagine the humiliation felt by the 59 year old man from Sussex, England, who, in 1994, sat his friends down to watch a wedding video, inserted the wrong tape, and instead treated them to a video of him having sex with the neighbor's dog. It's uncertain whether the neighbors were there at the time, but you can bet Rover was kept inside from then on.

Stacked Stories...

Stacked stories... So the steeper the stack, the more interesting the stories?

I bet is is! No, I know it is!

Imagine...All that you've experienced in a sexual level. Your dreams, fantasies and experiences, times people in the world. It's exciting to think of the possibilities. Every sexual experience takes you deeper into a realm you haven't entered before. It opens your mind to new possibilities that you might not otherwise contemplate. It opens your heart and body to new passions and desires, the kind that surprise you. When you say to yourself, "this is so out of my character".  What triggered that? How did I let myself get into that or to this point? How come I don't understand it? I believe we will not always understand all the things we experience in our lifetime. This is where the heart and the mind will battle. They will not always jive to the same jazz. So let it go and just know that what triggered it, was in fact a void. Subconsciously, we know what we do, although we may be able to interpret it right away or not at all. Instinctively, I believe we react as our lives indicate we should. You say, "yeah right!" Our minds are so powerful, so deep...I don't think we're smart enough for ourselves.  In retrospect, the epiphany of some will come to fruition for our understanding. Are some of us stacked better than others? Sure...but that's not cheating. An advantage? Sure...but why dwell on that? 

Create your own interesting stories...

Arrange the way you play out your life...

Is that a poker face you're giving me? ...

Get stacked! ...

-Liz

Wicked Weird Fact #9

Because you can...
If a man claims to be an audopederast, show respect. The means he's able to insert his own penis into his own anus. While it's not physically possible for most men, with a semi-erect penis, some achieve it.
What the hell?

Wicked Weird Fact #8

Apparently exhausting- The story of Sarah Carmen from the UK who has 200 orgasms per day due to Permanent Sexual Arousal Syndrome (PSAS).  This condition also called Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder, increases blood flow to the genitals and results in spontaneous and constant arousal, often unrelated to sexual desire. It can be set off by the mere rumble of a distant train or the vibrations of a hairdryer.  Wow...just crazy!

Wicked Weird Fact #7

"Everyone to his own taste and mine is for corpses", said Henry Blot, a famous necrophilliac at his trial in the 19th century. He's continued to have sex with his wife for seven years after her death. If you think that's odd, cast a suspicious eye over anyone abnormally absorbed in the statue of David. A galateist or agalmatophilliac is a person sexually attracted to statues or mannequins.
Just plain weird...

Weird Wicked Fact #6

In Japan, there was a trade in 

used panties of schoolgirls,

housewives, nurses, and widows.

You could also buy bottles of schoolgirl saliva.

What the hell?

Wicked Weird Fact #5

In Victorian times, boys were stopped

from masturbating by having their foreskin

drawn forward, holes drilled through it,

and lock and key laced through.

What the hell?

Wicked Weird Fact #4

Dr. John Harvey Kellogg

invented breakfast cereal as 

an antidote to masturbation.

He believed sex was

"injurious to health".

What the hell?

Wicked Weird Fact #3

A teacup, a pair of glasses, a pig's tail,

a flashlight, and a jar of peanut butter 

have been removed by doctors from the

male rectum.

What the hell?

Sex Jargon 2

FLUFFER

Someone who gives oral or hand-jobs to make porn stars

before they go on camera. These days it tends to be DIY.

GAPE

A vagina or anus stretched or held open to create a hole.

GLORY HOLE

A hole in the wall that someone inserts a penis into anonymously,

while someone on the other side sucks it.

GOLDEN SHOWER

The act of peeing on others or being peed on.

MONEY SHOT/POP SHOT 

Ejaculating for the camera. The longer the semen spurts out

and the more of it there is, the better.

PEARL NECKLACE

Ejaculating on to a women's neck and breasts so that the semen looks like a necklace.

PONY BOY/GIRL

A male or female who pretends to be a pony in a submissive

roleplay. Some wear a  saddle.

PRO-AM

A professional amateur-meaning some of the "stars" are

"real people" as opposed to porn stars.

RAINCOATER

The industry term for someone who buys porn films.

TEA-BAGGING

Dipping testes on to someone's face or into their mouth.

WALL-TO-WALL

One sex act after another without even a pretense of plot.

Possibly the most honest porn flick of all.

WATERSPORTS

Being aroused by peeing on someone or being peed on.

Let's Get it on in Public...

This song is sexy...

People will do the craziest stuff to get laid.

Now... check out this link below for funny public sex.

Not exactly what I call sexy.

I was laughing the entire time.

I'm sorry, she wasn't enjoying herself...pleazzze!!!

LMAO

http://www.spifftv.com/video.php?id=2831

Sex Jargon 1...

AC/DC

A bisexual man.

ATM

"Ass to mouth" as in finger, penis, or sex toy inserted up someone's bottom 

then popped right into mouth. Can cause potentially life-threatening diseases.

AUTOEROTIC ASPHYXIATION

The act of choking someone until they almost die in

order to intensify orgasm. Can go fatally wrong.

BACK SPACKLE

Ejaculating on someone's back or bottom.

CBT

Cock and ball torture.

It can cause irreparable damage.

CREAM PIE

A woman with semen dripping from her anus or vagina.

DA

Double anal: two penises in one bottom.

(yes, it's possible)

DP

Double penetration: in the vagina and in the bottom.

EDGE PLAY

Sex involving injury, death or humiliation.

Do yourself a favor, don't go there.

FEATURE

Porn with a plot.

FELCHING

Sucking fluids from the vagina or anus.

Poses the same health risks as ATM.

FINGERCUFFING

Being penetrated while sucking another man.

FISTING

Inserting a whole hand into the vagina or anus.