In retrospect I see clearly now how we can bury ourselves deep into oblivion. Denying the real issues that are so blatantly obvious to others, especially family and friends. We make excuses, ignore the signs, overlook the problems and turn our back on ourselves. Probably because we don't want to take ownership on how we contributed to the issues at hand. You're the only person that has to look at yourself every day in the mirror. Can you live with not owning your own words, behaviors and actions? No one else has to but you. The minute you accept feedback for what it is...a gift and honestly own it then you can change it, whatever IT is. People are more accepting of those who admit their faults and mistakes and are more likely to forgive you then those who deny it. The process can then begin, to dig out of that hole we're living in and wake up from hibernation. Sleep in the dark or live in the sunshine...
-Liz
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